In Love- Always on the Rocks

In Love- The original sin

Long before- Adam & Eve after eating the fruit of knowledge got awareness, they felt ashamed. The reason awareness lead to ego, the fruit of knowledge created ego. Ego created the idea of superiority.

Interestingly in today's world our Adams & Eves see no beyond their Ego and superiority- coined as my priorties, my need, my dreams, my desire ( In Short everything revolving around the word -"I" not "Us"). Forgiveness, acceptance in this jet age - I guess are rare to find. Despite all the anger and frustration of being cheated, not being accepted, not been forgiven, not enough love, not enough time for me still we dont desire for a Sacchrine or homeopathic form of love.

Lets call our Ego & Superiority driven Adam & Eve - Popo & Roro ( respectively ;))
The interesting form of Roro & Popo's relationship is- Problem of misunderstanding. Both are in different worlds, the poles of consciousness are opposite.

Roro is Intutive - Popo is intellectual. Our lady Roro jumps to conclusion with any thought process. Popo has this problem of coming hard to a conclusion but Roro just jumps to conclusion. Popo doesnt know he cannot deceive Roro ( simple natures funda).
Popo's mind goes zig-zag and Roro our lady is direct just like an arrow. Our man Popo doesnt realise, she never listens only looks in the eyes and here the man is caught- Roro always read the body language or the tone.

There is forever conflict between Roro & Popo, always on the rocks. Popo cannot fall asleep, Roro will not allow him too or vice versa. They go on goading each other. Still Roro truly loves , trusts Popo and vice versa .That is what is " Love", " Attraction", " Forgiveness- atleast trying to".

Roro and Popo are just examples, with a man & woman there is bound to be conflict, ego, tussle. It is the tussle which makes both of them go far far away and again and again creates situations of mini honeymoons. Interestingly not sacchrine at all.

The awareness of relationship between a man & a woman is deep, only by going deep will they get know what is or what are they short of. Despite all it never brings in contentment. The Love, the ego, the tussle, trust brings in element of deph, adventure, surprise, more understanding, improvement, ability to accept- Ofcourse more nagging.

What I really feel is it is essential to witness it and to witness bonding of love & trust . Someone mentioned to me once, it is the same for Love :

There are no unlockable doors
There are no unwinnable wars
There are no unforgiveable sins
There are no unrightable wrongs
There are no impossible dreams
There are no unliveable moments

I guess the same goes for "Love"- The original sin --- Always on the rocks ;)


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