How to win
As you read you would fnd no co-relation between the article & the title, probably at the end of the article if you introspect you will reflect upon your own winning & losing times. The article is actually a xerox of what i realised, reflected and interestingly read at the same time.
The story is about a career oriented woman, who asks her husband for a divorce owing to the feeling of lack of senstivity,connection, boredoom, loss of faith and a few unexplained feelings.She said there was no way he could get her back but jokingly mentioned except one "
Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?" The said he would answer the next day. Next morning the woman finds out the man has left with a piece of note which read-
" I will not pick the flower for you, not at all, just read on"
When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs.
So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand... and tell you the color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face...
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. "
Then on the couple lived happily. ( Dunt know if the story is real for it for sure is not far from reality).
That's life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... and that's our life... Love, not words win- not matter in whichever form...
Thus -
There are no unforgiveable sins
There are no unliveable moments
There are no unlovable souls
There are no unlockable doors
So How to win !!!!!
Friday, July 13, 2007
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Half way through the Gutter & the Stars *********
Sometimes we keep walking halfway through the gutter and the stars-in the mind/consciousness. At times we just keep moving endlessly without any purpose or direction endlessly giving pleas & excuses
WEll the half way of being in Gutter and star is primarily means concentrating most of the times on plastic feelings than the real achievement - the Star( real emotions).Plastic feelings /gutter feeling never break - anger, dominance, pride, ego, obsessiveness and others on the same league which are bound never to break, the real feelings/emotions- love, forgiveness, care, patience, self giving break so easily. Well the world of plastic & real is new to me.Take for instance - a plastic flower will never dry, a real flower will dry & die. change is inevitable , a real flower will die after sometime.
After a long time heard of the word impermanance, gutter leading way to the stars, probably a state of chaos & possibly death of the attitudes, behavior, old patterns, outlook & even moments.
It reminds me of a friend who had a ligament tear and the learnings she had out of it. Its like the falling ( due to dreaming/excessiveness), ligament tear leading to anger, frustration, probably being alone etc.all internal to her. Thus all plastic feelings.
On the positive side of it what did it pave the way for--patience, not to hurry up in life,be a lil free, etc. and so much more. Truly leading to a positive side & change in outlook & patterns ( applaude). In the entire process of moving from plastic to real was a journey.
Sometimes the path from Gutter to the stars leads to sorrow, defeat of so called emotions some real lot more plastic.The journey is usually chaotic but what is achieved is real- again a vicious circle of satisfaction and time & time again unlearning the learned & vice versa.
* Interestingly the other side, the real flowers are born out of a strong root, even if it dies it again grows maybe in a different colour or kind. But it is again real. So a vicious circle- true & real emotions never die. * ;)....;)....;)
Sometimes we keep walking halfway through the gutter and the stars-in the mind/consciousness. At times we just keep moving endlessly without any purpose or direction endlessly giving pleas & excuses
WEll the half way of being in Gutter and star is primarily means concentrating most of the times on plastic feelings than the real achievement - the Star( real emotions).Plastic feelings /gutter feeling never break - anger, dominance, pride, ego, obsessiveness and others on the same league which are bound never to break, the real feelings/emotions- love, forgiveness, care, patience, self giving break so easily. Well the world of plastic & real is new to me.Take for instance - a plastic flower will never dry, a real flower will dry & die. change is inevitable , a real flower will die after sometime.
After a long time heard of the word impermanance, gutter leading way to the stars, probably a state of chaos & possibly death of the attitudes, behavior, old patterns, outlook & even moments.
It reminds me of a friend who had a ligament tear and the learnings she had out of it. Its like the falling ( due to dreaming/excessiveness), ligament tear leading to anger, frustration, probably being alone etc.all internal to her. Thus all plastic feelings.
On the positive side of it what did it pave the way for--patience, not to hurry up in life,be a lil free, etc. and so much more. Truly leading to a positive side & change in outlook & patterns ( applaude). In the entire process of moving from plastic to real was a journey.
Sometimes the path from Gutter to the stars leads to sorrow, defeat of so called emotions some real lot more plastic.The journey is usually chaotic but what is achieved is real- again a vicious circle of satisfaction and time & time again unlearning the learned & vice versa.
* Interestingly the other side, the real flowers are born out of a strong root, even if it dies it again grows maybe in a different colour or kind. But it is again real. So a vicious circle- true & real emotions never die. * ;)....;)....;)
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