Formula Championship !!!!

Friend 1- Why do you like this person??
Friend 2- I like him because I feel I like him.I am an emotional person.
Friend 1- Are u sure its real emotions and not the chemicals in you !!!
Friend 2- I usually know when I meet a person whether i like him !!
friend 1- Interesting, so what are the parameters on which u like someone when you want to get in a serious relationship
Friend 2- eheemm !! I just know it, out of love,emotions
Friend 1- #$%%%*%)$)&^%$@

Friend 1- You need to have strategy/formulas of your own after all you have been dating from the last 10 years of your life.
Friend 2- Had I known the correct formula I wont be banging my head on the wall.Phew !!!!

I think most of us have been through similar situations at some point in time. It is very interesting that of all the different people I have met -who had & still have a successful relationship have told me different forumalas.

Formula One- Your so called emotions could be chemicals, adreanlines acting. Use your head too, eg: whether you have smilarities or not, cos eventually you dont want to be stuck with someone with whom u are poles apart.

Formula Two- It always your instinct, gut, emotions and how you feel at point in time about a person is the answer

Formula 3- Have options as many as possible and then see how u feel about them, be choosy. Look at the materialistic side of things too.

Formula 4-Dont get desperate, stay, analyse, feel with a cool head & keep your past aside and let things happen by themselves.

Formula 5- Leave it to God. Dont get attached.

After listening to all the 'n' number of formulas recently my head is spining round and round and I am going back and forth in my head --Heart and emotions are anyways loitering around & wasting time.

Eventually I have concluded and accepted--I have zero formulas/strategies to cling- no head no heart combination.
But for now i surely need to accept and love myself and let go :).. let go.....let go....to glory !!!!!!!