Apart from the fact that my days are filled with staring blankly at the wall or my laptop,my mind is continously filled up & I am realised by family/friends on " how to choose a right marriage partner" to " how immature i have been to all this while" to " How I should get married now " to "How agonising my life" is to "How love alone is not important" to "How scarred i might be i.e: beyond comprehension" to "How it is great to be taken care of" !!!
Few questions I am asked to ponder while feeling with my heart and utilising my brain --aka Formula One
1) Accept yourself and the other person i.e: after interacting with them for a few days. Accept the reality of each other
2) Liking is very important. You need to like the other person as a human being ( I thot i was a human being too)
3) COmpatibility of values & spirituality ( not religion)- This part i need to figure out.
4) Compatibility in expression & discussion of feelings- I understand it is not shouting & howling when u have a fight
5) Ability to look positively at situations - together . I dont understand this
6) Lover is not enough-- you need stability & a satisfying life.
7) Keep Jerks/Jolts out of your - the way you prefer to call them.i.e: Jerks are derivatives of derivatives !!!
I was bogged down after jotting these down and even more interesting despite the empty mind and days my heart is still overflowing...
Maybe it is truly a case of ---
too much love and yet not well enough
too much to give but not well receieved
2 comments:
Avoid staring at the wall and laptop
There is nothing else to stare at !!!
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